Is it true that in every relationship one person cares more about the relationship than the other?
OR is this just a “MAN thing”?
I live for the weekends when my husband comes home. He is ok with going for a couple of weeks without seeing me. how can we keep our relationship going, and getting fixed if we don’t get any time together?
it just all seems more important to me then it does to him. Is this normal.
What ever happened to happily ever after… well not in the fairy tale meaning… but in the “we are a couple and we are going to make this work for both of us” meaning.
am I as selfish as he thinks I am? If that is true I am not sure how to be less selfish, since being unselfish the way he thinks I should be, feels like giving up on my marriage.
We are told to find out what is most important to us and put all that we have into that… well my husband is what is most important to me, I am trying to put all that I have into our relationship, but I feel as if he finds my efforts unreasonable and childish.
I truly wish I had an answer. a magic fix all, if you will. but I don’t and once again I must simply trust and wait.