Plans=dissapointment, so why make them?

april 6

had made plans with people earlier this week for two different things.  one was supposed to happen today.  it did not, no word, no reply to the message I sent, not anything.  Just a no-show.

the other was for tomorrow. pretty sure it isn’t going to happen either.  that person has not responded to my message either. I saw he has something going on later in the day that will trump what I asked him to do. 

This seems to happen many times I make plans.  you really can’t depend on anyone no matter what they tell you.  I get a bit pissed off about the whole thing. 

it seems that no matter how I try to arrange my life to be how I think it needs to be, someone or something changes that arrangement.  I believe this has happened my entire life without me even realizing it was happening.  I have wondered why I am the type of person who lets life happen to them instead of making her own life.  I think this is why.  Why bother trying to make things happen when something always gets in the way? 

am I destin for this to be the way it goes for the rest of my life?  Am I strong enough to change this pattern?

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About aloneagain3

I am a wife and mother of 5 grown children... and 3 grandchildren.. I have been married for 29 years... I thought I did ok at life... turns out i sucked at it... but I am getting better!! View all posts by aloneagain3

2 responses to “Plans=dissapointment, so why make them?

  • stevebetz

    I’ve noticed a trend in young people that they’ll agree to something and then back out of plans. Somehow saying “no thanks” is more offensive than breaking plans? It’s a terrible trend.

    • aloneagain3

      I would have to agree. except one of the people who blew me off is not a young person. The young person explained and appologized. the other has not made even the slightest attempt to contact me. oh well. life goes on.
      Thanks for reading!

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