All I wanted was to have some normal married time with the husband. that is all I wanted. To be there when he got home and when he left for work. like regular people.
Not exactly how it went.
first leaving home always means that the 28-year-old is mad because her built-in baby sitter is gone. I do not like angry people. especially my family.
second, all was well, the husband and I were enjoying just sitting at the kitchen table talking and having a snack, filling his pill minder for the week. it was nice. we went to bed and he was looking on his phone for the weather, showing me what the forecast was, then “her” name appeared across the top of the phone. it was 11:30 at night and she was calling. the call in and of its self was aggravating (he didn’t answer it) but what really upset me was that I had asked the husband to tell her not to call after 9:00pm. He told me he had. but he really had not. another lie. we really got into a big fight, and I threw my makeup mirror across the room and broke it. I almost left.
in the morning the husband told me he wanted me to stay. He wants me to let it all drop, which I will. But I am so tired of being played for a fool, and lied to. I am not sure what to do. I feel like I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. If I demand what I want, I will lose. but I feel like I am loosing now anyway.
so for now I will just enjoy the time with him. looking forward to a nice weekend.