Some how I don’t think “you knew this was going to happen” and “there are consequences to your choices”. Qualify as comforting statements.
I looked to the husband to make me feel better for a blowout I had with my daughter. Which ended in me yell at her to get out of my house.
Of course me being me I was an emotional wreck after this.
I can’t stand being at odds with anyone. And I am afraid she will keep my grandson away from me for spite.
The husband felt he was being supportive. But he really made me feel it is all my fault. He says it isn’t my fault but then makes statements that contradict that.
This is the life is a codependent person. And I feel helpless to change it.