Double standard night

Double standard night.

The husband had a bad day so now he is short with me.

I was out at the store too long. You’re as bad as the kids
I didn’t get the dishwasher repairman scheduled
I gave the 26yearold a ride home from work.

This is how his criticizing makes me feel
You are inefficient
You are stupid since the repairman won’t get here for days. Then he will have to order a part. Now it won’t be fixed for Christmas.
You are a push over.
You disappoint me.

And the worst part is I have to keep those feelings to myself or I will get hung up on and told I am crazy.

Yup double standard night. I can criticize you. But don’t even think about criticizing me.

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About aloneagain3

I am a wife and mother of 5 grown children... and 3 grandchildren.. I have been married for 29 years... I thought I did ok at life... turns out i sucked at it... but I am getting better!! View all posts by aloneagain3

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