just a thought.

I used to be the kind of person who was for the most part happy in all circumstances. 

I am not anymore. 

I want to be happy again. 

About aloneagain3

I am a wife and mother of 5 grown children... and 3 grandchildren.. I have been married for 29 years... I thought I did ok at life... turns out i sucked at it... but I am getting better!! View all posts by aloneagain3

4 responses to “just a thought.

  • betrayalsurvivor1981

    I rd yr comment @ SLH’s “Lies” post. Have u finished rdg ‘Codependent No More’ Melody Beattie? U have 2 TRULY want help!

    • aloneagain3

      I have the book and have read some of it but not all of it. But that is my fear. That I truly don’t want to change and I will remain miserable. Sick isn’t it.

      Sent from my iPhone

      • betrayalsurvivor1981

        “But that is my fear. That I truly don’t want to change and I will remain miserable.”—aloneagain3

        —>I KNOW this, sweetheart, because I had an aunt who was exactly like you in this regard. She was more comfortable complaining than she was in making even the smallest changes for her own benefit.

        THAT SAID, I myself CAN relate to you, aloneagain3, because—after being criticized and disparaged by my mother (who loved me but DIDN’T know how to constructively express her love) during all of my life until she passed away in 2005—I am MORE comfortable being criticized than I am being complimented. YOU ARE NOT ALONE in that respect.

        That’s why I can relate and empathize with you!

  • userdand

    What is happy? How do you define it. I suspect if it came up and stood in front of you, you wouldn’t recognize it. You get one crack at the answer to this question and one only. It is not a multiple choice answer. If you were granted one thing and one thing only today that would bring you happiness, what would it be? What is that one thing if all the others didn’t work out that would still give you happiness? Be specific, because I will show no tolerance for a poorly thought-out answer.

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